Money should fund
your life.
Not replace it.
For the unconventional few who built something real — and refuse to let it own them. We measure the whole person before we touch the portfolio.
Why this firm is called StandUP — and what it actually stands up for.
After two decades inside the financial industry — including most of it on the independent side, where I thought the conflicts of interest had been fixed — I realized that even the cleanest version of this business was still walking away from the things that actually matter. So I built StandUP around three positions the industry quietly avoids.
First: stand up for financial literacy. I grew up watching my parents stand in bread lines in communist Albania, then watched my country lose its savings to pyramid schemes in 1997 because nobody knew what a real investment was supposed to look like. Bad financial decisions made by people who weren't given the tools to know better don't just hurt portfolios — they destabilize entire lives, and sometimes entire countries. That's why I've taught financial literacy at Goodwill, universities, and community events for years. And why every calculator on this site is free, with no email gate. Financial literacy is a survival skill, not a luxury.
Second: stand up against the industry's quiet dishonesty. Most of what gets called "advice" is product sales with a polite label. Commissions hidden inside funds. Plans built around the firm's revenue, not the client's life. After 20 years I realized even most independent firms were doing a quieter version of the same thing. So I built the opposite — fee-only, no products, no commissions, fiduciary 100% of the time. Integrity shouldn't need a cop.
Third: stand up for your life, not just your account balance. Money is a tool, not a scoreboard. The question that matters isn't "what return did I get last year" — it's whether the money is pointed at the life you actually want. Accumulation for its own sake is a waste of the most useful tool you'll ever have. Wealth is what makes optionality real, generosity possible, and the choices that matter actually available.
You built something. You took risks others wouldn't. You measure your life in experiences, not account balances. You just need someone to make sure the financial side of your life is working as hard as you are — and an honest second set of eyes on the bigger question of what it's all for. Not a coach. Not a guru. A fiduciary whose job includes both.
That's what we do. Nothing else.
You Might Be
Our Kind of Person
In 2017 I sold most of what I owned, bought an RV, and spent fifteen months driving across 48 states meeting entrepreneurs, retirees, artists, and ranchers. The same question kept coming up in every state:
That trip became this firm. Nobody else is doing financial planning this way. That's intentional.
The Da Vinci Index™
Da Vinci didn't separate thinking from feeling from purpose. He ran all three at once — engineer, artist, and philosopher in the same mind. That integration is what made him dangerous. It's also what most assessments completely fail to measure.
IQ — how you process complexity. EQ — how you handle pressure. Purpose — whether you actually know what the money is for. Three dimensions. The distance between them tells us more about how you'll behave with money than any risk tolerance questionnaire ever could.
This isn't a personality quiz. It's a map of the whole person — and it's how we learn to work with you, not just for you.
How We Work
Most financial planning skips this and goes straight to spreadsheets. We don't. First conversation is just about your life — what matters, what doesn't, and where you want to end up.
We map your full picture — taxes, investments, estate, risk — and find the gaps. Then the Da Vinci Index maps how you think and handle pressure. The financial gaps are only half the picture. The behavioral ones are where most plans actually break.
We put a system in place that runs without you having to think about it — but we don't disappear. We stay engaged, helping you navigate decisions, adjust as life changes, and make sure the plan keeps earning its place in your life.
Done right. Nothing extra.
Taxes, estate, insurance, retirement, cash flow — the full picture, not just the portfolio. Built around your life, reviewed as it changes.
Low-cost, evidence-based portfolios with active behavioral coaching. Built around your life — not a model with your name on it.
A rules-based options overlay engineered for capital efficiency and uncorrelated alpha. For HNW individuals, family offices, and institutions. $1.1M minimum (SEC qualified-client). Details under NDA.
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The same tools I use with clients — free, no sign-up, no email gate. Each one has its own page with the math and the framework behind it.
What your money becomes over time. Starting balance, monthly contributions, return rate, time horizon.
Coast FI / Walk-Away / Full FI. The number where money stops trapping you.
Same average return, different order. See how a bad first 5 years of retirement can change everything.
Your real monthly cost, your payoff date, and what an extra payment actually saves.
The real comparison — with the costs the "just buy" pitch always leaves out put back in.
What moving somewhere cheaper is actually worth — and what no spreadsheet can price.
The only retirement question that matters: does the money outlast you, or the other way around?
62 vs FRA vs 70. The full tradeoff — with mortality scenarios and the break-even ages most calcs skip.
Multi-year Roth conversion schedule for the sweet-spot window between retirement and RMDs.
Bridging from employer insurance to Medicare (ages 55–65, or earlier for FIRE). ACA subsidies, COBRA, HSA — the gap most plans skip.
What a trust really changes — and what doing nothing quietly costs the people you leave it to.
An honest gut-check, not a pitch. Some people genuinely don't need one — this tool says so.
ISO, NSO, RSU, ESPP — and the AMT trap most tech employees don't see coming.
The Purpose Pit Stop
Once or twice a year, I take the RV back on the road and hold in-person financial strategy sessions — face to face, no agenda except figuring out what you actually want and whether your money is helping you get there. Can't meet in person? We do these virtually too — same depth, same format, just over video.
I started in this business. Then I left it. Then I built what was missing.
CFP®, CAIA charterholder, founder of StandUP Advisors. 20+ years managing money for people who had better things to do than think about money.
Born in communist Albania. Came to the U.S. at seventeen, with an accent, not much money, and a fairly clear-eyed view of what bad financial systems do to ordinary people. Started in financial services at a large firm, learned how that machine actually works from the inside, and left as fast as I could once I understood it. Spent another decade on the independent side before realizing even that wasn't enough.
Now I split my time between Maryland and Playa del Carmen, Mexico — I designed my life the same way I design plans, around what matters. Married, with two daughters. I've taught financial literacy at Goodwill and universities across the country, written a book about what money is actually for (STANDUP, available on Amazon), built a proprietary options strategy from scratch, and once spent two years driving an RV across 48 states asking people what they actually needed from a financial advisor.
The answer I collected — from thousands of kitchen-table conversations — became this firm.
STANDUP
The book that came out of the RV trip — fifteen months, 48 states, thousands of miles, and one recurring question from every person I met: I have the money. Now what?
It's not a personal finance book. It's a book about what money is actually for — and why getting that answer right changes everything else.
Part road trip, part financial philosophy, part honest account of what it looks like to walk away from a career, a lifestyle, and a set of assumptions about what success means.
Straight talk about money,
behavior, and life.
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The same essays I'd write to a client if I had time — about money, behavior, and what the spreadsheet keeps getting wrong. Free. Unsubscribe whenever. No upsells in the inbox.
One per month. Read once — see what you think.
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Schedule a Call →StandUP Advisors exists for people who've already figured out that money isn't the point.
Purpose is.